This chapter is very negative in tone. Verse after verse uses the term “don’t”. Beginning in verse 15, we see whom Solomon was addressing – his son Reheboam. It would appear that Solomon saw some flaws in his son’s character.
In verses 15-16, Solomon wrote, “My son, how I will rejoice if you become a man of common sense. Yes, my heart will thrill to your thoughtful, wise words.” We know that Reheboam failed his first test as king. Read 1 Kings 11 & 12 for the history of this.
In verses 17-19, Solomon encouraged Reheboam to “continue to reverence the Lord all the time, for surely you have a wonderful future ahead of you. There is hope for you yet! O my son, be wise and stay in God’s paths;” There is hope for you yet? That sounds like Solomon knew his son was in trouble. That is not uncommon among children who grow up in a “privileged” home.
In verses 22-26, Solomon continues. “Listen to your father’s advice and don’t despise an old mother’s experience. Get the facts at any price, and hold on tightly to all the good sense you can get. The father of a godly man has cause for joy – what pleasure a wise son is! So give your parents joy! O my son trust my advice.”
Reheboam was 41 years old when he began his reign and was king for 17 years. He never recovered from his first mistake and was always a weak king. But all of this was a result of Solomon’s sin.